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Is Porn Teaching to Use Women?

In the days in which active equality policies are beginning to flourish, a double morality regarding pornography has been denounced.

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In the days in which active equality policies are beginning to flourish, a double morality regarding pornography has been denounced. Under the slogan of sexual freedom, a part of pornography sends the message that women are to be used and that their pleasure is achieved through sex, abuse and aggression. The most visited videos show it; girls suffering, having a bad time or even unconscious during sexual intercourse.

Pornography appears historically as a stimulus of male eroticism, as an accessory directly linked to the sexuality of men. Women condemned to the non satisfaction of sexual desire, or indifference to it, have not developed patterns of taste or sexual satisfaction based on many other types of stimuli, including pornography.

This does not mean that women currently do not consume pornography, 61% of women watch porn movies with their partners, 15% with friends or friends, and 19% alone (Bassani, 2005). But, studies also tell us that men are the main consumers of pornography, or at least that is what quantitative studies reveal about the issue.

Is Porn Teaching to Use Women?

According to the feminist critique, pornography reinforces gender stereotypes. The narrative plot is direct, without mediations, the forms of possession of women in almost all cases of submission and a certain degree of violence indicate a gender based on the submission of women and certain rules and aesthetic characteristics.

Everything seems to respond to a logic of the aesthetics and eroticity of the masculine. The female orgasm conditioned to the male phallic power. The male orgasm exhibited outside the body, the absolute lack of companionship, complicity or minimal affection in the couple show that the porn industry in many cases, directly or indirectly, is sending a harmful sexual message to our young people.

According to Sierra (2011), there are three types of pornography according to the type of interaction of the people who act. Luxury pornography seeks the sexually subtle exposure of men and women who exhibit their bodies to sell an advertising or entertainment idea.

Soft or refined pornography is characterized by having as its own result and object the exhibition of the body, without pretending anything other than the clear sign of it. And raw pornography, where explicit exposure is sought and people adopt the role of objects.

Sometimes there are representations, seeking the excitement of the viewer, very hard, which leads to reach a level of desensitization in the consumer, to the point of transcending beyond the role of spectator and feed a possible desire to make reality or participate in such sexual situations.

MarĂ­a 12 years old, victim of porn?

Maria was not comfortable with her body, she could not stand herself, although the terrible reason was not discovered until a few months later. Until the day when the girl – with 12 years old is still a girl – came home with the spotted sweater. The stain was of semen. And everything that was happening was discovered.

And what was happening had begun one day, several months ago, when four classmates – 12-year-old boys, like her – locked her in a school bathroom and masturbated by her side. “If you say something,” they threatened, “we tell everyone that you are a whore.” She fell silent. And, as he was silent, the abuses were repeated.

Each week these children, I insist, 12 years old, were looking for the moment to lock their partner in the bathroom and masturbate. At first they did not touch her, but the abuse grew in intensity, until the day they decided to ejaculate all over her. That was the day when the girl came home with the spotted sweater. Of semen.

The parents have denounced, but the children, at that age, are not imputable. They continue to go to the same school as their victim, although she – she! – has changed her class. That girl will suffer the consequences throughout her life and it will be complicated – she tells the psychologist – that she can have a healthy and normal sexual relationship. Do you know what the abusers have told their parents? They have only done what they have seen on their phones. Porn.

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